How to be a girl or a woman in the world, and how to avoid the pitfalls of automatically thinking “slut” or “whore” and assuming that we are just vessels for men’s pleasure and disposal starting from an early age.
Sri Harmandir Sahib. Source: WordPress
I see myself as a Goddess. If I value myself and my body and decide that it is sacred – does that mean no one can come inside and visit? No. A truly beautiful temple has many visitors. This doesn’t mean that a woman who saves herself for one man or woman or trans person, is any less of a temple.
We need to see ourselves as beautiful beings, and tell our friends, no – just because someone burnt down the alter, or wrote on the walls, does not mean you are any less of a goddess temple. As the line says in the poem– “no man can make a wounded energy of your flesh.”
And no name- no shame- that you felt after the one night stand, the rape, the callous looks of someone who is upset about something in themselves and has…
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