Just as a reminder, this is the very first few lines of my slimmed-down, to-the-point profile:
*******I’M ALLERGIC TO:********
– Hookups, FWB, DTF
Got a message from a guy with a picture of a cigarette hanging out of his mouth.
Him: Interested in something casual?
Me: In the first line of my profile, I said I’m not into FWB or DTF.
Him: Okay. I just found you attractive and wanted to make sure I wasn’t an exception. I will leave you alone.
Did you catch that? I’m not sure if he thought he could be the exception because he found me attractive (is it too much to ask that every man who wants to bang me finds me at least moderately attractive?), or if he thought waving his penis as bait was going to change my mind, because so many men don’t think to do that?
This also seems to be a case of, “Oh, you don’t really mean ‘no.’ I mean, there’s no way you could actually know what you want, because you haven’t met my penis yet.”